Archive for the ‘Sex, Romance etc.’ Category

The Goddamn Opener for Approaching Women

Friday, August 18th, 2006
Last night, I had this whole plan to start, run and end the talk radio with the subject of Openers. How to approach a woman in the field, what to say, how to say, what different things to say in what different situations. Moe, our pickup guru and I had been discussing about the show for the last week, and guess what,... we touched upon something that is far more crucial and vital and which comes before the opener. I kind of completely missed seeing this. In spite of the fact that this most crucial and vital thing was the biggest stumbling block in MY life - that prevented me from approaching women for a long time. I'm glad we did ...

Desi Train gets a Pickup Guru Onboard

Monday, July 10th, 2006
First things first. The Desi Train Forums are now O P E N. For now, the forums can be viewed by all, even those who have not registered. But that will change in the near future. Because, I'm working on bringing in Gurus expert in their respective fields who will give free advise to questions you may have, that are related to the topics, those Gurus are,... well Gurus in. To flag off the forum, please let me introduce to you, one of the best, new and upcoming, pickup Gurus in Orange County. Lespuppup. a.k.a. Mo. Mo and I have been going out to dig deeper in the art of socializing, for quite some time now. Our usual Fridays and Saturdays start ...

Become a Loverboy not a pathetic loser

Saturday, July 1st, 2006
The emails are flooding in. I used to get some two dozen odd emails each week on the topic of pickup, seduction and dating. Mostly from desis. Ever since I posted the events of a Friday night where I turned the Desi sheeps into Roaring tigers... I'm flooded with emails... So I sat down today to count them... 483 emails. 483 emails all talking about pickup. Desis, Americans and quite a few from Australia and Asia. One is a 43 year virgin, some are so afraid to talk to women that they barely speak to females in office and some are so fucking heartbroken over their lost love that they have no confidence on getting another woman in their life. Did ...

Badboy’s Life Rules for Pickup & Dating

Friday, June 30th, 2006
Remember we always keep coming back to the "Alpha Male", whenever we talk about Pickup and Dating? Badboy emailed this last night and it is worth reading and re-reading it a few hundred times. Badboy mostly goes in for the direct method... You walk right upto the lady of interest and simply tell her what you feel about her. Badboy is also known for his shock treatment. For AFCs (Average Frustrated Chumps) who fear the "result" of approaching a woman, BB goes for the worst case scenario. He'll get the AFC to first put a naughty smile on his face, get his body language rocking and then ask him to walk up to the girl sitting on the next ...

Class of oz turns Desis into Approach Machines

Monday, June 26th, 2006
[Updated June 27, 2006] This post and the pictures in it are based on real events that took place in oz's life on Friday, June 23rd 2006. . . . . . . Friday 3pm. I'm back at work pacing around to wrap the week up when Mo calls. "Yo Dog, What's the plan for the night?" I really haven't given it a thought. For once I wanted to go out and chill. Have a few drinks and unwind. "No sarging tonight Mo. But I'll be glad to go out and have a few" "Damn it bro!!! Mitch and Orn are coming because of you" I forgot about it completely. Mitch and Orn were two shy early 30s Software geeks whom I had met at the ...

Vibe : The heart of Attraction & Seduction

Tuesday, June 20th, 2006
I've wanted to write some real exciting revelations I've had in the last week after meeting the Juggler Method guys in Los Angeles. Blame it on me getting bored of the same old same old DT Header Picture. So last night instead of writing the post that I've been so excited about, I was redesigning the header portion. If you haven't noticed it so far, there are 9 small Desi Train header pictures on the top left corner which rotate one after another. So no, as per AP's email of this morning, I'm not sitting on my computer changing the Desi Train logo every 15 minutes. :) Anyways - here's something I would like to start with. I know I always go ...

40 Mistakes Men Make during Sex (UhOh!)

Friday, June 9th, 2006
I realize these aren't set in stone, but while reading them on the Internet I thought some were rather funny: *NOT KISSING FIRST Avoiding her lips and diving straight for erogenous zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour and trying to get your money's worth by cutting out nonessentials. A proper passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay. BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there's a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you're trying to extinguish the candles on your birthday cake. That hurts. NOT SHAVING You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner's face and thighs. When she turns her head from ...

A Weekend of Pickup Madness

Monday, June 5th, 2006
My mom's uncle used to spend hours telling me his adventures. He was a top cop of his time and spent much of his life hunting the bad guys and sometimes wild animals who would sneak into the villages and attack humans. One of the most fascinating one liners (yeah I got that from him) he used to say was that when a tiger's tasted a man's blood his mind goes crazy. He's hooked and he can't think of eating anything else but a man. Flash forward to 2004. My first exposure to - the then underground - pickup community. I entered the field with a bunch of pickup gurus by my side and I realized how easy (and nerve ...

How to earn $1.4 million in 6 hours

Sunday, May 28th, 2006
The Seduction community has been on fire for the last 2 -3 days. PUAs (Pickup artists) are angry. Some are clapping, while many are shooting agitated posts and comments on the secret discussion boards. A few others have voiced their opinion by throwing the nastiest of acid on their blogs. Why? Lets back up a bit. About 4 years ago a New York Times writer entered the then secret underground pickup community to learn pickup. At that time, in his own words, he was an AFC (average frustrated chump). But he had an intense desire to learn the Game and pretty soon many established Gurus in the community took him under their wing. He learnt, he rose, he grew famous and wherever ...

Friday Wrap

Friday, May 19th, 2006
Friday again. And in a few hours we'll be free for the next 48 odd hours. Come to think of it, a 9 - 5 job, does have its benefits. It gives you a sense of excitement each week, every week. Think about it. You are jailed every Monday and released every Friday for 48 hours. Monday morning they bring you back in. This screenwriting class is interesting. Started a few days ago. I'm confused though. Everything defined in terms of structure, methodology and flow, most of us movie fanatics may already know at a subconscious level. Maybe not in those text-book defined words. It's interesting to note that the Greeks first came up with the ...

Women Gaming Men

Tuesday, May 2nd, 2006
I kid you not. This game of Pickup is now being learnt by someone else. The Women. Yes dear reader, women are learning the latest and greatest tools available out there to land the man they want to marry or have a one night stand with or perhaps one they can have a no strings attached relationship with. So if you're a guy who is not the marrying kind, but suddenly find yourself getting married to the girl you were dating, blame it on the "How to get the man you want" manual I just happened to accidentally come across. One of the girls on my staff had brought this to work and I was blown away ...

Back in the Pickup Game

Monday, May 1st, 2006
I find very few desis in clubs and bars in Southern California. And if there are some I find them huddled together so tightly, that I doubt if any air passes in and out of the group. RK's having a tough time. He's hanging out with me to learn something about the game and in his own words "get himself out of the beer and TV world into the world where he can meet attractive women" Problem with many desis (those who would rather die than approach a woman), that I've observed is that they are trying too hard. Their facial expressions are tight - showing nervousness, their body is in a position that it seems they ...

The First 3 Minutes : Kiss or Kick?

Thursday, April 27th, 2006
The Pickup world again. But this time it's in the form of a reality based TV show. Click the video below to see how an Average Frustrated Chump can be changed to a Pick Up Artist. The video is hilarious, but you know what - that looks so much like what I went through... before eventually meeting some of the great Gurus of Pickup in LA. Watch the video guys to find what you do wrong and what you do right. For the Ladies, they'll immediately be able to identify the guys whom they are attracted to or replused by, based on the type of approach the guy makes towards them. This one is so right on the money. Bang on target. ...

The beautiful Sheetal

Wednesday, February 15th, 2006
Sheetal ShethAlmost spilled my Darjeeling tea ~o) over myself when Rohit's post popped up on my screen . The beautiful Sheetal Sheth featured on Maxim and Rohit publishes her pictures :o. Luckily I survived the onslaught of the cutie's pictures. Damn she is beautiful. Though the pictures are tame according to Maxim's standards...hey its Sheetal Sheth! Abhi from Sepia Mutiny had somehow managed to get a picture clicked of him and Sheetal together at a function. He carried that pic on his cellphone. Damn!!!! Frankly I haven't been a fan of the movies she's done so far, but I'll admit I watched them cause she was in ...

Mama Mia!!!

Thursday, January 26th, 2006
Ok I admit, I have not been able to do one thing at work since morning. It's been a long time time, uhuh, a very long time since someone or something has had the ability to distract me to this extent. I'm afraid to get off my chair and leave for lunch. The reason is simple. Mini-me is up, awake, alive and ready to roll. This is a state where whatever you try however hard you try, mini-me will be in no mood to listen to you. No Sir. What mini-me wants mini-me gets. Its an altogether different matter that the few times what mini-me wants it cannot get. Tragic. Yes indeed. But if you had a magic potion to ...